Venus rahu in 3rd house in aries indicate that you will have an affair with someone from your neighborhood. when this will happen will be decided from dasha. Also, because it is in aries, it will happen very quick. you have mars debilitated house wise, and mercury and moon debilitated sign wise so take care of your mental health. do not hesitate to ask for help when needed. Pray to lord shiva he will take care of the rest.

she may elder then you